Difficult decisions are a part of life.

[There's a little more vehemence behind that than a teenager should normally possess. He's frustrated. How could he let himself slip like that in the future and be cruel? He's not allowed to slip, he has responsibilities. His life does not belong to him alone, it belongs to the service of his people. Nothing could make him forget that.]

You don't have to tolerate ...that. Him. His selfishness. If he can't even control himself to act properly...